Just met up with one of my unimate yesterday afternoon. My first impression seeing her in front of my house was she was down & moody again. At first, I was quite furious when she's late for hours without informing me but then, when I saw her facial expression, I just forgive her cos I knew she has other issues even bigger for me to look at instead of focussing on her lateness.
We talked for hours and she has been sharing her stories with me. Both her in-law & family issues that she has been facing and dealing with. Well, listening to her stories do make me phobia of getting married but then, it's part & parcel of life which we need to cope & deal with. My friend of mine been commenting that it's easy to talk then to act just like the phrase "Walk the Talk" of "Talk the Walk".
Yes, she's absolutely correct and the same goes for everyone out there. Everyone got his or her own unresolved issues but which are the one that we are in control then we've to do something about it rather than pondering and getting upset at some issues that are beyond our control. We are in control either to live happily or otherwise.
My advice to her was to prioritise importance weightage of these people that she has to deal with. Who come first in her life and also who will accompany her till the end of her life journey?
I told her is her 4 months old baby in her womb (including herself) and her beloved hubby. Be cheerful & happy always. Get rid of all those negativities in her mind and channel her energy towards her baby and new family that she's going to have in March 2010. Read more books & online search on educating & taking care of baby & etc. She was enlighten with my ideas and the most that I concern is she will be a happier mummy to be. Keep the spirit high up, my dear friend!! The site that I came across last week www.annegeddes.com. Take a visit at those cutie babies. I just love it & have uploaded one in my earlier blog post.
About Me
- Learning Curve-KL
- Brief description abt me-came from a small town, single-parent and being the OnLy ChILd. Studying HaRD & ExCEL in exam has been the main FOCUS since young. Since my family is not well educated, learning on my own EffORTs & InITiATiVEs are very much difficult compared to others. Completed my studies via INPUT Learnings in classroom was extremely tough for me. Recently, came across E-Learning method ie Score A program and I've subscribed it for my cousin and within 3 months, she has shown improvements in her results from 2A1B2C2D to 4A2B1C and 6As1B in her PMR. Great isn't it? Do allow me to share the experiences and sECret RecIPe with you..
